Sunday, January 11, 2009

I Will Be Leaving The Country


York Minster

It's probably way too early to post on my trip to England, which will not happen until the latter part of March, but I'm quite excited about it, and I can't wait any longer to tell about it. I have not left the US for 10 years, but for a few brief forays into eastern Canada from a cruise ship. I hadn't traveled abroad for a couple of years before Bush was elected, and then after he was elected, I was ashamed to visit another country.

In the years before Bush, I'd travel across the sea every two or three years. During Bush's reign, I considered going abroad, but I could not quite bring myself to do it, especially once we invaded Iraq. The thought of having to explain everywhere I went that I didn't like Bush either, was too much, and then, very quickly, 10 years passed. Well, Bush will be gone in just 9 days, and I'm ready to travel.

A couple of months ago, Grandpère said that he would like to go to England again, but that he wanted to go to a different area of England than we'd been before, perhaps the Yorkshire area. We talked about when he wanted to go. Great chunks of the year are blocked out for no travel for him. There's the spring planting of the vegetable garden, then the period when the produce comes in, which takes us from April to June or early July. In September, the saltwater fishing season begins and lasts until December. Hunting season starts sometime in the fall and ends in the latter part of January. That leaves late July, August, late January, February, and March. I said that I didn't want to go to England in January or February, so he suggested March. Fine.

I went online to look for flights several times. In the meantime, GP began to get cold feet about the trip. He's going, he's not going, etc., etc., etc. It was his idea! The travel bug had bitten me, so I decided that I'd go whether he went or not. I found a good deal on a flight on Continental Airlines from Newark directly to Manchester, UK, not through Heathrow or Gatwick, which I wanted to avoid if I could. I asked GP if he was ready to fly away, and he said that he couldn't make the committment yet. I said, "OK, I'm buying my ticket." He said, "I still might want to go." I said, "That's fine, but we may not be on the same flight." As of today, he is not going.

Throughout all of this time of decision, Doorman-Priest was my counselor and my guide (I almost typed my God - he was that good!). He guided me to Manchester as the most suitable airport and suggested Leeds as a base. Need I say that I won't be driving? I'll depend on other sources of ground transportation, like my feet, trains, and coach tours. He found a family style hotel not far from the town center and within walking distance of his home, where I'll stay. DP and his lovely wife even went to visit the hotel to check it out, picked up a brochure, and mailed it to me.

DP and his wife have made my trip a family project. Isn't that kind? In addition, I am invited to this concert of the Leeds Philharmonic Society, to which DP lends his wonderful voice, plus a post-concert engagement in one of the newly smoke-free pubs.

At first, I was going to divide my hotel stays between Leeds and York, but I don't like packing up and moving from one hotel to another, so I will probably stay the entire time in Leeds. York is only a half hour away from Leeds by train. I emailed DP to tell him I was ready to make my hotel reservations, and I received this reply:

And we're ready for your arrival. Bunting is being put up all over the North of England as I write...


Yorkshire Moors

65 comments:

  1. What wonderful plans, Mimi. You'll have a wonderful time with or without Mr. Mimi.

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  2. What a wonderful trip! I am SO envious. However, I made my last car payment and once the other debt is paid down a bit I hope to begin traveling. I'll count down the days with you and I think the idea of traveling solo sounds very exciting (though being a single person, I guess I would think that way, eh?)

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  3. I like to travel a lot more than GP, so I've already taken trips on my own. I like company, but when I go alone, I get to do exactly what I want, without compromising to suit another's desires. I'm really, really looking forward to the trip.

    I was going to have to visit armories museums and that sort of thing, if he went. He could still change his mind and decide to go.

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  4. Oh excellent!! If you get a chance take the train or bus to Chester and see the cathedral there. They have the most wonderful sculpture in the center courtyard - and also a fabulous stain glass window in the refectory.

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  5. Ann, I'll keep that in mind. Did you have a picture of the sculpture on your blog after your trip to England and Scotland?

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  6. Good for you! Please make sure to try to visit the ruined abbeys of Yorkshire such as Byland and Rievaulx....very evocative of the rise and fall of churches and faiths (in their case the Reformation) and incredibly photogenic. More here

    IT

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  7. IT, the two abbeys are already on my list. Thanks for the link. I'll never do all I want to do in 10 days.

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  8. Windermere and the lake District!
    Wordsworth and Beatrix Potter lived in the same village--of course, not at the same time!--but it's definitely worth a visit. We went on a little steamship over Lake Windermere, but I don't know if they run that in March. We were there in July. (Package tour. The only thing we actually saw in York was the Minster and the Shambles, after stopping of at Hadrian's Bunch of Tumbled Over Stones (that's all the Wall really was) and then we spent a night at Harrogate before proceeding to Stratford.) The small villages are a delight. Make sure you visit a couple and get into the churches--not the ruined ones, but the parish churches still in use!
    Both Chester and York have small medieval sections that are now in effect open air shopping malls (the Rows and the Shambles).

    Circumstances rule out my travelling any time soon, or for the last several years, but eventually I will be going back to England.
    I am rather sorry that you didn't want to go abroad in the last few years. You could have witnessed to them (witness in the evangelical sense) that there were plenty of Americans who don't think it's right to invade whatever country they want, and that half of this country didn't vote for Dubya.

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  9. We've talked about this - you know that I am delighted that you are going.

    And jealous!

    I left the country numerous times during the Bush years. No one seemed to hate all Americans. They did detest Bush, but no one, not even in the middle east, blamed me!

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  10. I hope you're considering a drive-by in Newcastle.

    I'm leaving for Firenze Tuesday. Sounds like you'll have a great trip in the early Springtime. Give my best to Wordsworth when you get there.

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  11. Kishnevi, I've been to Windemere and the Lake District.

    I just could not travel out of the country. I couldn't make myself do it. If I could have, I would not have waited 10 years. I'm 74 years old. I'd have preferred going when I was younger.

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  12. Fran, thanks for the vicarious delight. What can I say? I couldn't leave the country. Perhaps it was some sort of self-imposed looong period of mourning.

    Counterlight, I won't be driving.

    And I am jealous of you. I may have one more European trip left in me after this one, and it will be to Italy. I adore Italy and the Italians, and Florence is my favorite city in the world. If you've a mind to, you can walk across the whole city.

    I'm glad my message sending others to your place was posted before you left. I'm especially happy about your teaching job.

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  13. Grandmere --How wonderful! I can't wait to see your pictures. Lent is a good time to travel--church can get so boring!

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  14. Margaret, I guess I'm the odd one. While Advent is my favorite season of the church year, I like Lent, too. That may seem a little crazy, but it's true.

    I'll be back in the US for Holy Week, which, while I won't say that I enjoy it, I believe that it's a good thing to try keep well and observe the days.

    I'll be arriving in England the day before the first day of spring, but the average temperatures in the Yorkshire area in March are in the high 30s and low 40s, which is winter weather here. Cold weather or not, I'm looking forward to my visit.

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  15. Take your warm clothes, Grandmère - it's cold and damp in the UK in March.

    My brother lives in Manchester, about a ten minute drive from the airport, and I spent a week there in 2007. I've been in Yorkshire a few times, too; my parents lived in Hull for a few years and had a little holiday trailer on the Yorkshire moors somewhere.

    And of course, if you care to venture down to the Midlands, the country is swarming with my relatives - but that might or might not be a recommendation for you!!!

    Marci and I are going over in May, to visit our daughter north of Canterbury and to spend some quality time with my Mum and Dad, as my Dad especially is getting very frail. Too bad we won't be there at the same time as you!

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  16. Take some long underwear -- polypro is light but warm. I wore mine the whole time we were there in March one year.

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  17. So I'll need my long wool coat when I go, right? Snowboots? I have a pair, but they'd be bulky to carry along. And I'll need long underwear. My goodness!

    Tim, it is too bad we won't be there at the same time. Since GP is not going, I could have changed to a later date, but the fares were much cheaper in March than later. And he could still decide to go. I'll let him sleep in my room.

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  18. Wow, a pic of one of the FEW places I've been abroad, York Minster (toured the UK w/ the 'rents the year I graduated high school, a zillion years ago. Never been across the pond---or any ocean---since :-( And not for political reasons, as much as I agree w/ yours, Mimi).

    Have a great trip! [You've got to see the Mad One: just to see if the world spins of its axis, in the encounter! :-0]

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  19. Not so sure you will need snow boots - but waterproof something for your feet. Waterproof outer jacket or coat. Wool sweater. Wool socks - long johns (good for sleeping in unheated English bedrooms). You can get poly pro shirts that look like regular tops so don't need other shirts. Nice of you to let Grandpere sleep in your room if he goes to England too. Have fun!!

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  20. So glad to hear of your trip, look forward to hearing the details. I thought of England this year (was last here in 1980) but the financial meltdown has stopped any plans for now. Glad you have DP to assist. I nearly always travel alone but it is nice to meet up with friends for a chat.

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  21. Mimi
    this is fantastic news! Are you going to be there over a weekend? Yorkshire is about 5 hours drive for me but I'd so love to meet you - and maybe DP too! How about a date for getting together with all your English friends from the blogs?

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  22. Yes, let's have a reunion. Don't tell MP: he doesn't turn up for his own.

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  23. Ann, I'm making a list.

    Wool socks
    Long underwear
    Galoshes

    I have the other stuff. So a coat and a raincoat? I have a raincoat with a zip-in liner, but I don't know that would be warm enough by itself. Maybe a cheap plastic raincoat or poncho.

    Brian, thanks.

    Erika, I'll actually be there for two weekends. I'd love to get together with a group from England. Adrian (Pluralist) is in Hull, isn't he? That's not far away. He may want to join us.

    DP, you and your wife have been great. Thanks so much.

    Our nest egg is shrinking by the day, so I thought I'd grab some of it and spend it, before it entirely disappears.

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  24. Eat, drink, travel and be merry! ;-)

    Happy trails, Mimi! It's probably good to go before Obama does something that will embarrass us all over again. They always do, you know--politicians, I mean.

    And it just gives me and my mother's husband something to bond over. He never blamed me for Bush, but it certainly gave us something to talk about!

    Pax,
    Doxy

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  25. Mimi

    Layers. Definitely layers.
    A thin pullover, a cardigan or fleece, a light raincoat (but not plastic, you sweat in it yet it won't keep you warm) with a hoodie, just lined enough to keep you warm and windproof!

    Gloves, scarf, woolly hat just in case.
    And be prepared for the faint possibility of nice warm weather:-)

    When you have your itinerary ready let me know so I can make plans!!

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  26. Susan swears by very thin plastic pants to put over your trousers to keep the wind/rain out. They're easily rolled up in the rucksack you'll be carrying around. And although I resist them I must admit that she needs to wash her jeans much less frequently after dog walks than I do, and that her legs do seem to stay warmer.

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  27. Oh, Mimi!! How exciting! In many ways I am envious. Also, don't forget a small umbrella! I love the kind that fold down into about 8 inches. They only keep the rain off my face and glasses, but I can't see anything if my glasses get wet, and I feel much safer if I can see where I'm going...

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  28. I have a long raincoat without a liner, almost to my ankles, and I'm thinking that may be my best choice with layering underneath as needed.

    Susan, thanks. I have a small folding umbrella that travels with me wherever I go.

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  29. Eddie Bauer has great raincoats that breathe - I wore one all day in a pouring rain in Scotland and was totally dry. With an poly pro shirt, and a couple of layers - a thin and thick sweater - with something to keep out the wind and rain -- you will be nice and comfy. That and the always ready cup of tea at "tea time" -- lovely.

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  30. re: umbrella - you may want to buy that when you get to England - security has trouble with umbrellas sometimes.

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  31. Just pack the umbrella in your checked luggage!

    And Mimi, almost any time is Tea Time! I especially enjoy the in room tea makings that are part of almost any good family hotel room in England...

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  32. I'm hoping not to have to buy too much. I have warm pants, a good hat, gloves, and scarf, and sweaters to layer with. I've made do with what I have in 0 to 18°F here in the US, so I should be OK.

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  33. Sounds like you are all set --- I am just packing and living vicariously LOL

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  34. It's the coat that has me indecisive. Shall I carry the long wool coat, which can take me through any weather? Or would the long raincoat be better?

    I appreciate all the advice, really.

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  35. If it's windy umbrellas are useless.

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  36. I would take the raincoat if it is lighter and layer under it. Easier to pack around than a wool coat. If you were coming to Wyoming I would say - wool. It never rains - always snows!! (well not quite never)

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  37. Ann, that's my thinking, too.

    And if we have a reunion, there's TheMe. I'm worried about him. I left a comment for MP, asking if he had talked to him lately.

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  38. I expect there will be quite a few people like me willing to travel quite a way for a meeting.

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  39. Erika, I am moved that you are willing to travel so far, but I shall be quite pleased if we get to meet and if we get a group meeting together.

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  40. If you all want a get together I will have a look at city centre restaurants to make travel easier. I can think of several straight off.

    Ignore everything you have heard about British cuisine: it is well out of date.

    You should come to La Grandmere, though. She has a punishing schedule for herself and won't need additional travel, just a gentle and possibly slightly inhebriated totter off to bed.

    Let me know and I will sort it.

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  41. DP, that sounds lovely. I hope that this plan works out.

    ...just a gentle and possibly slightly inhebriated totter off to bed.

    Excellent!

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  42. DP
    Sounds perfect. I'm hoping Susan and I can come together and stay in a local B&B. I'd prefer a Saturday night so we can travel up gently on Friday and return home on Sunday, but we can be flexible if Mimi's schedule requires.

    Which town are we talking about? I've been in touch with Adrian and we might be able to give him a lift.

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  43. Leeds would be good if I'm to totter home slightly inebriated. The Saturdays would be either March 21 or March 28.

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  44. Mimi
    do you have a preference as to which Saturday?

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  45. Lucky Grandmere. I concur with the advice about layers, and water repellancy is important.

    RE. weather, It's the cold damp that gets you; it's the same sort of misery that makes a midwesterner complain that Boston feels colder than Chicago because if it is truly frigid, the air is drier and doesn't feel as cold! Cold rain in the 30s and 40s is a possibility. But the first vestiges of English spring are breathtaking with bits of green and blue sky. Layers are important so you can take advantage of the occassional warm spell. I lived in the UK for a pleasant 4 years and remember it fondly.

    IT

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  46. Erika, either Saturday is fine with me. DP may have a preference.

    IT, I'm used to the damp. Yes, layer, layer, layer. I'll leave the long, heavy wool coat home and layer with the raincoat on top of the layers.

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  47. Wow - this is great news. I look forward to your travel blogging!

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  48. HolyFoolishness, I can't wait. I'm not carrying my laptop with me. The blogging will have to wait until I come home, but I'm sure I'll have a lot to say then.

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  49. I am so pleased for you, Mimi.

    I was going to ask if you'd had your shots, but if you're not going to N-upon-T you probably won't need them.

    [teehee]

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  50. Paul, I won't be carrying coals to N, so I won't need shots, but you reminded me that I will need to renew my passport, which is expired. I must remember to make arrangements for the picture taking tomorrow and get over to the courthouse.

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  51. The best thing are Internet Cafe´s --- buy an hour and keep us posted - just remember to take your blogger password with you. Or send an email to one of us - poor pathetic waiting on every word types - to post for you on one of our blogs - maybe we need an alternate like Of Course I could Be on Vacation --
    Wounded Bird Flies the Coop -- or something like that.

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  52. And I thought I was going to get a rest from blogging.

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  53. Oh nooooo -- and leave your poor friends suffering from Grandmere deprivation? Bad enough that you ge to go to England and see all our other friends!!

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  54. Unless we set up a blog "Of Course Grandmere Mimi Could Be On Vacation"

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  55. If I have time, I'll buy internet minutes to write a few words, but you'll all do very well having a little rest from me and the Wounded Bird, who tells me she wants a rest, too. I'll have to remember to take my passwords with me.

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  56. And of course you will want to read our scintillating comments and email???

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  57. Of course! I've said it before, and it's no load of BS, but those who comment here make the blog as much as I do - for better or for worse. LOL!

    Did y'all read Curtis in the Sunday paper? I'd love to post the strip, but I suppose there would be copyright issues.

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  58. Is this thing still on?

    Ah, the Galloping Grandmere is off again! It will be easier to take if there's time for a note.

    And why not Newcastle? You don't have to leave it up to him to show up somewhere; kidnap his arse!

    I suppose I haven't entirely outgrown my boyish enthusiasm for combustible mixtures.

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  59. Johnieb, the trip is still on. After all, the Galloping Grandmère has paid for it twice. I love that name, by the way.

    My schedule is crowded, and a trip to Newcastle is not on my itinerary.

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  60. Mimi, I don't mean to burden you with more well-intentioned advice, but as we haven't been abroad since 3 B.C. ("before children") I hope you won't mind a vicarious trip back to Yorkshire.

    Not far from York is Castle Howard, not only the seat of that illustrious family, but the setting for both of the "Brideshead Revisted" film treatments. I think I remember you said once you'd been there, but, if not, it's worth a trip over.

    Others have mentioned the ruined abbeys. We visited Fountains Abbey in a beautiful clear morning mist.

    I think I remember your saying, too, sometime in past years, that you have been to the Bronte parsonage in Haworth. Had I the opportunity I'd certainly go back. Still haunted by those enormous crows perched on crooked, dark-green-tinted tombstones, with the moor beyond.

    My sister earned a Masters in Archaeology at the University of York, and worked on a large Viking dig in the eighties. There's still a museum under the shopping mall they built over the site, at the level of dark age Jorvik. Kind of Disneyesque, but fun.

    Needless to say, the Minster, the keep, the walls, the shambles are all magnificent. Should be a wonderful time, whenever you go. Keep us posted.

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  61. Rick, your advice is welcome. Castle Howard is on my list. The Bronte parsonage is another destination of choice. I'll look for the crows. How Bronteish.

    I said that I had ten days, but it's actually eleven, but still, I will never see all that I want to see. I've visited the Minster and environs on my day trip, but it's well worth another visit.

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  62. Mimi, this sounds wonderful! And meetups with DP and Erika too!

    Maybe MP will send Callum as an ambassador ;-).

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