Saturday, September 1, 2007

Clergy Need Counseling

From the Associated Press:

Clergymen struggling to comfort the afflicted in New Orleans are finding they, too, need someone to listen to their troubles.

The sight of misery all around them — and the combined burden of helping others put their lives back together while repairing their own homes and places of worship — are taking a spiritual and psychological toll on the city's ministers, priests and rabbis, many of whom are in counseling two years after Hurricane Katrina.
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Almost every local Episcopal minister is in counseling, including Bishop Charles Jenkins himself, who has been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder.

Jenkins, whose home in suburban Slidell was so badly damaged by Katrina that it was 10 months before he and his wife could move back in, said he has suffered from depression, faulty short-term memory, and difficulty concentrating or sleeping.

Low-flying helicopters sometimes cause flashbacks to the near-despair — the "dark night of the soul" — into which he was once plunged, he said. He said the experience felt "like the absence of God" — a lonely and frightening sensation.


This is a serious problem not only for pastors, but for all in the helping professions. Please pray for them.

Roman Catholic priests have not reported any unusual counseling needs, said the Rev. William Maestri, spokesman for the Archdiocese of New Orleans. He said one possible reason is that priests do not have wives or children to support and protect.

Despite the seriousness of this article, I burst out laughing at the reason the Rev. Maestri gave for his priests' apparent superiority in mental health.

Yes! Celibacy is best! The Roman Catholic celibate priests are strong and stand up to life's adversities on their own, without any need of outside help. Or could the Rev. Maestri be in denial?

Since Fr. Maestri is the spokesman for the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of New Orleans, he is often quoted in the media. On several occasions, I have found that his remarks indicate that he is somewhat clueless on various subjects. He has a history with me.

Please include the Roman Catholic priests in your prayers. I believe they may need prayer as much as the others.

10 comments:

  1. Grandmere, As serious as the article is, I too had to laugh at Fr. Maestri's comment, especially since it was admitted that most if not all the Episcopal priests, including the bishop, were in counseling and suffering from post-traumatic stress. I'm sure that not having families to support and worry about probably has made it a bit easier for the RC priests, but I took it not as praise, but as a stupid and insensitive remark - an expression of the attitude that gets so many into trouble - that they are above it all and don't need help. How can one minister to the people in Louisiana and Mississippi through all of this and NOT need help??? It's too much to bear alone, and I would hope some counseling of some sort would be required or at the very least, stongly suggested, for all clergypersons involved in taking care of the people in these areas.

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  2. LTL, you are correct about the insensitivity of the remark - as though the other clergy are weak in comparison.

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  3. Sorry, Mimi, I've signed you up for a job at the Bishops Shindig. I figure that'll set them right!

    Sorry if it's not quite as serious as your post. But hey, I'm trying to improve the tone of my blog posts, I really, really am! (You believe me, right?)

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  4. They all need prayer. Celibacy anin't got nothin' to do with PST, or the horror of what relief workers had to deal with.

    I saw PBS specials on the aftermath of Katrina, and what the workers saw and dealt with, including animal rescue workers. It made me cry, watching it.

    The whole sorry story of Katrina and the FEMA response and everything still makes me cry -- and I wasn't even there.

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  5. Pat, I wasn't there either, and I've been sad for several days since the anniversary - really in a funk.

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  6. Please know Grandmere, that you are held aloft in prayer at this time and always, now that I know you.

    I can't imagine your sadness. Being who you are and so close to what happened, how could your spirits not be low?

    Leave it to one of my (clueless) co-religionists to give you a much needed laugh, albeit an ironic one.

    Good Lord, we can't admit we need help? A celibate clergy probably needs MORE help unless they are one of the few supported by close friends and family.

    For God's sake, that kind of interconnectness of the spirit was the topic of today's homily at my parish.

    Thank God we have been blessed with an unusually open, life filled and life giving priest. He has many close friends and a good family... And if he has anything else, as long as it is consenting and an adult it is ok by me!

    The RC church wonders why so many problems... It is not the celibate part, it is the shut down denial.

    I am praying for all the priests and any one in a helping job in NO.

    pax to all.

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  7. Fran, I know that there are many good priests in the RCC. I have known them. You are blessed to have one of them.

    I know one priest who has had a lady partner for years. She's a nun. They have been discreet, but I'm sure many - probably even the bishop - know about their relationship. He did what he had to do to meet his needs for companionship, and good for him. He's a good priest, and priests are scarce, so I suppose they let him be.

    The Archbishop of New Orleans was an auxiliary bishop in Boston during the reign of Cardinal Law. Imagine! He learned how to be a bishop under Cardinal Law. He's pretty clueless, too, sometimes, so his spokesman serves him well.

    God knows we have our crazies in the Episcopal Church, so it's definitely the pot calling the kettle black.

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  8. Grandmere- it is only where the wounds are that the healing may begin.

    All of our churches are crazy. Thank God that God is not. Not crazy, just has some interesting sense of irony though, doesn't He?

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  9. Wow. Of course, I know that all clergy need real and effective support, but I had not given thought to my brothers and sisters serving in NO. I can only imagine.

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  10. The pastors need pastoring, too, don't they?

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