Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Adventures In Mimi-land

The good news is that my granddaughter was a finalist in the Geography Bee at her school. She had a fine cheering section, which included her dad, Grandpère and me, and a young friend of ours. The not so good news is that she was eliminated and did not win. Anyhow, it was good that she went to the finals.

The young friend that I mentioned who was with us came over earlier saying that his marriage of a couple of years was in trouble, and that his wife had taken off to her parents' house with his brand new Labrador puppy that he paid lots of dollars for. He said he thought he had caused many of the problems in the marriage and wanted to go to confession - not to me - but then he pretty much did. He believes she'll come back. I hope so.

He's interested in the Episcopal Church and asked if our priest would hear his confession. I said yes, and I hope that was the correct answer. He was baptized in the Roman Catholic Church and attended Catholic schools. His wife is/was a Methodist, and he thought they might want to attend the Episcopal Church. I told him that quite few Catholic/Methodist and Catholic/Baptist couples end up in the Episcopal Church.

Evangelist that I am, I carry around calling/business cards for my church, so I was able to give him one and suggest that he give the priest a call. He was a church-goer until he went to medical school, but he had then fallen away. I suggested it might be a good idea if they began to attend church somewhere, if his wife returns. He took us to see their new house, which is lovely. I hope that these two young people can work things out. Pray for them.

This is destined to be an all-around personal post. My son and his ex-wife meet on Friday to try to agree on a property settlement. Pray that they may come to an agreement and that the settlement will be right and just. Thank you.

Thanks to Eileen for the idea for the title of the post.

UPDATE: I stayed with my grandchildren tonight, because their dad worked late, and I helped my grandson with his homework. He has ADHD, and by nighttime his medication wears off, making it a challenge just to get him into the chair with the books in front of him. Then, he is easily distracted from his work, but he is so funny in his distractions that I find myself laughing at him and further encouraging him in distractions.

He was to write his spelling words twice, but he found a page in his notebook where he had already written the same words three times, so he proceeded to erase the third word in each set. I said, "No. Your teacher wants you to write them again to help you learn the words. She's going to see that you erased them." He said, "No, I've done it before. She doesn't see it." I said "That's cheating." He was not going to write them again without a fight, so I let it go. Let his dad deal with it - or not.

17 comments:

  1. G'mere -- Prayers for your young friend, his wife and their puppy. Also multi prayers for your son and his ex. I guess I'll pray for healing and that none of them be afraid. Those are about the only things I feel comfortable praying for without feeling bossy. I'm pretty sure that God doesn't want people not healed or afraid. Awe-struck, hopefully, but not afraid.

    And as someone orphaned from whatever spelling ability I once had by "spell-check", I am most impressed by your grandchild's making it to the finals.

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  2. Congratulations to your granddaughter. It's sometimes difficult but important to teach kids that being a finalist is quite an achievement. Working hard and being among the best is what it should be about -- not the winning (but, boy, do they love to win, and we enjoy it as well).

    Hope your young friend finds what he needs. A lot of Episcopalians don't know about confession though, of course, it's available. I did a long, painstaking one once. Probably time to try it again (just gotta find me a priest).

    Evangelism by business cards -- great idea. Mimi, when you go Protestant, you do it all the way!

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  3. Prayers for all concerned, Mimi.

    My son is doing that GeoBee right now. I don't envy him---geography was always my worst category in Trivial Pursuit... ;-)

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  4. How fortunate for your friend, Mimi, that he had you to open up to. Hope it works out for the two of them.

    And for your family too.

    Just out of idle curiosity, what was the question that stumped your granddaughter?

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  5. All of you, thank for the prayers.

    SusanKay, I do believe that prayers of petition are efficacious. I don't know how exactly, but I believe they are. I know that when I pray for someone else, it's efficacious for me. I leave the rest to God.

    Klady, my GD took it well. She loved her cheering section.

    I've been to confession in the Episcopal Church only twice, once to a monk on a retreat, and that was fine, and another time to a priest whom I knew, and I found it terribly embarrassing.

    Back in my RC younger days, I could walk into any RC church on a Saturday afternoon and go into the confessional and confess in total anonymity. That was good.

    Doxy, you know.

    David, he talks more to Grandpère than he does to me, but it seems he wanted me today. I hope my words were helpful.

    David, it was question about unemployment rates, and a blank, shaded map of the states of the US. It was a complicated question, about which state with a certain percentage bordered this other state, and she got the state wrong. Once you had the question straight in your head, the answer was easy. How do you think I would have done?

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  6. Given the general American ignorance of geography, I applaud your granddaughter's achievement. You may tell her that complete strangers are proud of her. (And I'm pretty strange.)

    Hugs and prayers all around.

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  7. Prayers all around.

    I hope that the couple can work out their issues. It is your work to help hear this man's words and you have done it with great love, from all appearances. I love that you have the cards handy, by the way. That is actually so nice.

    Congratulations on your grand-daughter's Bee! Even if she did not make the finals, it is still an accomplishment. I have no doubt that geographically speaking, she is in great shape. We really lack in this knowledge in our country so I am just delighted to know that there is a Geo Bee!!

    I am praying for your son and his ex. God illuminate the way for them to find peaceful solutions.

    And your grandson. I loved the image of how he distracted you! It is beautiful and then you got him back on track.

    Thanks for sharing all this, I personally adore any visit to Mimi-land that I can get!

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  8. Mimi, prayers all around, not forgetting the loving grandmere. And felicitations to your granddaughter - a great triumph, indeed!

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  9. Tell your granddaughter she has people cheering for her all over the map!

    Thanks for the update. Sending warm thoughts and prayers.

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  10. Paul, I am quite proud of her myself. She has maintained her excellent record in her studies, despite the upheaval caused by the divorce of her parents. I will definitely tell her that a very strange man is proud of her, too, which, I'm sure, will totally creep her out.

    Fran, thank you. GS is a challenge for us all, but he is quite endearing, so we forgive him easily.

    Thanks for the prayers and cheers, St. Pat and Jane.

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  11. I know all about doing homework with the ADHD challenge. Fun, fun, fun.

    Congrats to GD! Being a finalist is a big deal.

    Prayers for the struggling couple.

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  12. Eileen, I know that you understand the homework challenge.

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  13. Wow. Prayers all around. My own ADD makes studying a challenge, LOL--I know where your grandson is coming from.

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  14. Kirstin, you understand the homework challenge even better - firsthand.

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  15. Grandmère Mimi, I love to read of adventures in Mimi-land.
    Your granddaughter's knowledge of geography is wonderful in this day and age. Few young people are very proficient at it any more. There are gaping holes in my knowledge now, too. I am currently trying to relearn all of the countries and capitals or Africa, Eastern Europe and all of the former Soviet Socialist Republics--Thisastan and Thatastan. All of that has changed drastically since my childhood.
    I can also relate to your grandson with ADHD. No one knew what my ADD was when I was young. It didn't have a name, but I tended to try to go off in six or seven directions all at once. I still do. Some days I can focus. Other days, that is only a faint hope.
    I will add your son and his ex to my prayer list along with the young couple. I hope they do get involved with the church. I believe being God centered can be the salvation of a marriage. Most of my friends with solid marriages, without exception, are involved in church.

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  16. Boocat, I'm pretty sure that Grandpère had and has ADD, but, as you said, it had no name. If the condition is genetic, then it's in the family.

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  17. Boocat, thanks for your kind words, too.

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