The Dodos of Our DayThe flightless dodo bird is extinct, but it's human namesake is not...alas.
Pity the pretend defenders of decency,
the protests of baffled bullies in the pulpits
of patriarchal privilege who’ve long relied
on the fiction of feminine weakness and sin
to justify the unearned dominion of males
so easily distracted, disturbed and undone
by the merest glimpse of soft flesh, of female skin
that the only way to control themselves is to
smother women and girls under cover of veils
and social rules that treat all issues intimate
as property safe only in male possession.
Pity those cold and desperate to re-assert
authority over bodies not theirs, frantic
with fear of women thinking, working, threatening
the oppressive cultish deference to all parts
masculine required to preserve the lie of strength
exposed in equality, in women living
by their own choices, without “father’s” permission.
Sad it is to see the Akins, Imams, Romneys
irrational flailing ignorance in defense
of a “right” devoted to hiding the ego
fragility of the few who must be “in charge”
to feel secure, the few who over-compensate
for their own faults with weapons and words demeaning.
Pity them, so dependent on their own fiction
that just a little truth can mean their extinction.
(Marthe G. Walsh)
Many thanks to Marthe for the poem.
Gotta love it.
ReplyDeleteAnd yet - the truth is, there are women who support those patriarchal notions, millions of them. To take one example, lately I've seen a few news articles quoting old Phyllis Schlafly, still going strong to my surprise after all these years, and still as anti-feminist as ever.
Go figure. I suppose for those women there's a pay-off. What is that, do you think?
You've heard the old song: "Stand by your ATM ... er, man" ... they are voting their economic interests and, well you know, gun control - single moms are the cause of gun violence according to Willard his Mittliness Rmoney - must not become a single mom causing crime because that's just an excuse for those other guys to take away the guns.
DeleteOh yes, there are still women who want a daddy instead of a husband, but that was never me. I wanted an education, so I would be able to support myself, whether I married or not, and I managed despite many obstacles.
DeleteI think Genette is right. In many cases, the man is the ATM. After divorce, men, on the average, do better financially than women.