Wednesday, April 16, 2008

"Pure Fashion"


From The St. Louis Review:

Instead of strutting down the runway in pieces made by great fashion designers such as Dolce and Gabbana and Christian Dior, some young aspiring models here are preparing to showcase the work of the "great designer" at their first fashion show later this month.

Forty-six young women ages 14-18 have been taking part in Pure Fashion, a seven-month program that encourages teen women to live, act and dress according to their dignity as children of God. The international program, sponsored by Catholic lay movement Regnum Christi, was introduced in St. Louis last fall.

"Pure Fashion is working hard to advance the modesty movement by helping teenage girls see that they can be trendy, yet tasteful," said Christina Heddell, chairperson of Pure Fashion in St. Louis and director of the archdiocesan Respect Life Apostolate.

That means finding fashionable clothing that meets modesty guidelines set forth by the organization — including clothing that fits well but is not too tight, a neckline that falls no lower than the width of four fingers below the collarbone, and dresses and skirts that are no shorter than four fingers above the kneecaps. Visible bra staps and underwear are definitely out of the question.

But Heddell said that "Pure Fashion also aims to teach girls that modesty is more than just clothing. It involves interior purity, authenticity, respect for oneself and others."


I'm guessing God is the "great designer"? It's quite a leap from God as Creator to fashion design. Methinks the girls are being sold a bill of hyperbole.

"Pure Fashion"? Just the name, and I don't like it. I had enough of control of my clothing in the uniforms that I was forced to wear in my Roman Catholic school. They were modest, no question about that, but they were ugly, just plain ugly. No strapless and low-cut dresses at proms and graduation. Fine. Those were school functions, but I don't believe that the nuns went so far as finger measurements. You just knew, or the nuns told you, or they gave you a scarf to cover up.

"[T]rendy, yet tasteful" and "interior purity, authenticity, respect for oneself and others"? I'm not quite sure what "interior purity" means, but the rest seem OK. Measuring with the fingers from the collarbone and the knee is moving into ridiculous territory, in my humble opinion. Call me rebellious, but, as a teenager I would have resisted this sort of attempt to impose control on my wardrobe outside of school. My friends and I would have laughed at the fashion show. We were jaded young cynics, even back then.

The program also has had an effect on her clothing decisions, Colson noted.

"Ande got invited to SLUH’s sophomore dance, and we went to Dillard’s and found this beautiful dress, but it had spaghetti straps," one of several fashion "no-nos" Pure Fashion teaches the young women.

"So we found a bolero to wear over the dress. She said, ‘There’s no way I was going to embarrass me or embarrass him.’"


At first I thought Ande was talking about embarrassing her date, but I do believe that she was talking about embarrassing God. Would God be embarrassed by spaghetti straps?

When I tried to visit the "Pure Fashion" website, I was thrown off the internet twice. I didn't try again. Maybe they screen out rebels, even old rebels.

In my experience, most teen girls have strong opinions about their choice of clothes, and it's best to let them settle on their own style, within certain limits. This is the age for exploring, for trying new things, not for herding them all into a bland sameness. I don't know. Maybe it's just me.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

For Jane R - Gracefully Aging Men




With thanks to my supply man, Doug.







UPDATE: Here's a video called "I'm Too Sexy" sent by Susan S. showing pictures of many of the male movie stars from the olden days when they were young and beautiful. Well, there are a couple that I wouldn't exactly call beautiful. I named every one, which dates me a little.

Beware Of Imposters - Part 2




Doug again.

Monday, April 14, 2008

A Kiss From The Governor

Ah, you know things in my little corner of the blogosphere have gone awry, when I'm reduced to quoting myself in the comments to my own blog.

It all started with Jim (read that as, "It's all his fault") at JindalWatch, who told the story of his day of glory when he met Uncle Earl Long of Louisiana, brother of Huey and one-time governor of Louisiana. And a charming story it is. You should read it.

Then in Jim's comment section, we had this exchange:

Grandmère Mimi said...

...One day I'll tell you about the time I met Edwin Edwards.

Jim said...

I would love to hear your Edwin Edwards story. Write 'er up!


Are you still with me, folks? "Well," I thought to myself, "Why not? It's a little embarrassing, but I'll do it". To my surprise, I discovered that I had already written it up in my own comments. For your amusement, here it is brought into the light of an actual post:

Grandmère Mimi said...

Lapin, there really was a bumper sticker that said, "Vote for the Crook. It's Important", because Edwards' opponent in the race for governor of Louisiana was none other than the arch-segregationist and neo-Nazi, David Duke. And I did vote for the crook.

Although Edwards was a crook and a notorious womanizer, there was something about him that I found endearing. (God help me!) Perhaps, it was because he was seldom hypocritical - a welcome relief in a politician.

He'd campaign in black churches and tell the congregation, "I don't drink, I don't smoke. Two out of three is not bad."

In fact, on one occasion when he arrived at a gathering at the university where my husband worked, there seemed to be no officials there to greet him. I was standing there with a group who may have resembled a receiving line, and he came right up to me.

That was one occasion when words came out of my mouth seemingly without passing through my brain, because I said to him, "Does a kiss from the governor come with the greeting?" Of course, he promptly kissed me on the cheek. Grandpère was standing next to me wide-eyed and astonished.

After Edwards moved on he said to me, "What did you think you were doing?" So. There you are. I'm in the company of an enormous number of women who have kissed Edwin Edwards.
October 8, 2007 12:19 PM


There you have it. Sometimes the demons take over, and what can you do?

UPDATE: Too Good For the Comments:

Paul said...

We all have our inner trollop, Mimi.

Tutu - Our Rock Star



Archbishop Desmond Tutu at the pro-Tibet rally in San Francisco on April 8, 2008. Thanks be to God for this great man of faith!

Thanks to Roger for the link.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Filkins, Burns, and Charlie Rose

On Wednesday evening, I watched The Charlie Rose Show, which featured as guests John Burns and Dexter Filkins of The New York Times. Both spent years in Iraq reporting on the present war.

I wanted to get their perspective on the present situation in Iraq and to hear what they thought of Gen. Petraeus' testimony before Congress. I watched with growing dismay as they seemed to agree with the general's opinion that real progress was being made and that we should tough it out in Iraq to give the Iraqis more time to sort things out among themselves. They see progress as coming from the bottom up rather than the top down. I agree that if the violence is to cease in Iraq, it is the Iraqi people themselves who will need to do much of the work. We part ways in that I don't see the necessity of the US keeping large numbers of troops in Iraq for the foreseeable future. It seemed to me that the two basically agree with Petraeus.

What totally freaked me out is that not one of the three mentioned the troops who will have to do the hard and dangerous work of keeping the violence down, while the Iraqis work out their differences. It's as though they are chess pieces to be moved about the game board and not real human beings in harm's way, many of whom are worn out from repeated deployments and are working with equipment that is defective and worn out.

Petraeus is, in my opinion, the most honest general that we've had in charge in Iraq, because he comes closer to speaking the truth in describing the situation there than any of the others. He doesn't try to put lipstick on a pig.

Filkins was somewhat more realistic than Burns in that he described the downturn in violence as fragile and allowed that it may not hold and could turn explosive again at any time. I found this statement by Burns rather astonishing:

JOHN BURNS: And the notion I get, as you would expect of Americans who are, in my experience, very pragmatic and open-minded people, is that there`s a convergence on one idea. And that is that the way home, if there`s a way home -- and this has got to be incremental -- that we can`t now -- given all the complexities and uncertainties, it would be unwise to set -- to put ourselves into lockstep to draw up some overall solution. That, push forward, see where you are, make a decision at that point. It`s the way every football coach that I`ve ever watched plays his football games.

Arrrgh! This is not football! What he says about the American people is far from the truth. The great majority want our part in the war to come to an end.

A little background here. At the end of and in the aftermath of the Battle of Fallujah, Dexter Filkins and I exchanged emails for a brief period. He seemed a little pleased to have a granny from the bayou country send him emails and not tear into him with scathing criticism. Whatever I thought of the idea of destroying Fallujah to save it from the insurgents, I was not going to tear into the messenger from the scene about it. He did excellent battlefield reporting from his position embedded with the troops, and that's what I wrote to tell him. To me, the idea of leveling a city to save it seemed pure madness, but I did not tell him that, since he was still in a very dangerous situation. After a while, I stopped writing to him, since my thoughts on the war were quite gloomy, and I thought he had enough to contend with and did not need to hear my bitching and moaning.

At the website of the Charlie Rose Show, where you can see the video at the link above, I had left a comment. Afterwards, I checked to see if I still had Filkins email address, and I did. I was not sure that it was still a working address, but I sent him the following:

Dexter, I listened respectfully to you and John Burns in your interview with Charlie Rose. The violence in Iraq is down but may be creeping up again. I agree that the change will need to come from the bottom up, when the Iraqis have had enough. It seems that you and John support Gen. Petraeus's position.

I believe that Petraeus is the most honest general we have had leading the military effort in Iraq. I have a sticker on my car that says, " BRING THEM HOME", and I mean that, but I hope that we bring our troops home in a responsible way. I hope that we offer protection to the Iraqis who have worked for us and who will be in danger when we leave. I hope that we do not abandon support for the country once we leave. We owe the Iraqis a great deal for destroying so much of their country, for causing the displacement of so many of their citizens, and, directly or indirectly, causing the deaths of many of their citizens.

You and John were in Iraq, and I was not. That's why I listened respectfully to your words. As I wrote in the online commentary on the show:

Comment by Grandmère Mimi on Thursday, Apr 10 at 01:11 PM

I didn't hear either man mention the abuse and lack of support of the US troops in Iraq by their superiors. I didn't hear them mention that our warriors are worn out, that their equipment is worn out, that our Army and National Guard are being destroyed. I did not hear them mention that the present level of troop numbers are unsustainable. What I hear from Petraeus is give us another year, or two, or three, or however long we need. I'm hearing echoes of the pleadings in the midst of that other not-so-distant, but not-to-be-named war. I hear these two men supporting Petraeus. Sorry, I'm not buying it.


I'm sorry that you and John chose not to address the matter of effects of the war on our military, because I think that is a vital issue.

Regards,

June Butler aka Grandmere Mimi


Filkins answered promptly and politely. I do not post or quote emails without permission, but I will try to paraphrase his response. He thanked me and admitted that he should have mentioned the strain on the troops, because it is a vital issue. He said that he wished to, but that he did not have the opportunity. He said that it was not so much that he supported Petraeus, but that he was trying to convey that the situation in Iraq was quite complex, and if he had the chance to do the interview again, he would talk about the troops, because the numbers serving now in Iraq cannot continue.

Fair enough. Still, that the three men could spend nearly an hour talking about Iraq and what should be done there without ever mentioning the troops is, to me, absolutely astonishing. I confess that I was depressed for two whole days after watching the interview.

Somewhat off topic, but I wanted to include a couple of quotes from the interview about the day Saddam fell:

CHARLIE ROSE: Now, this is anniversary today...

DEXTER FILKINS: The fall of Saddam.

CHARLIE ROSE: The fall of Saddam.

DEXTER FILKINS: Yes. Yes, when the statue came down. In fact...

CHARLIE ROSE: Which is often -- it`s a visible sense that...

DEXTER FILKINS: Yes. Yes. I mean, it was remarkable.

You know, I was outside the city that morning. You know, we slept in a palm grove. And, you know, waiting -- I don`t know -- John was in the middle of the city. I mean, speaking of crazy, I mean, he survived the whole bombardment.

And the Marines that I was with were kind of gearing up for a big fight. And, of course, you know, by 8:00 a.m. in the morning, it was clear there was no Iraqi army to speak of.

And then, of course, by 10:30 in the morning, the whole city was being looted. And, you know, by noon, the ministries were on fire.

Yes, what a day. I mean, it was -- I felt like, you know, I was on a football team and there were four minutes to go in the game and we were ahead by 40 to nothing, and we somehow found a way to lose.

(CROSSTALK)

DEXTER FILKINS: You could feel that day all the wind go out of it. It really -- just...

CHARLIE ROSE: Because of the chaos that was apparent and no one was in charge. And when you look back...
....

DEXTER FILKINS: ...I don`t know if they had 165,000 troops, but there was -- that day, April 9th, I ended up at -- you know, I don`t know, 2:00 p.m. I was in front of the Iraqi Olympic Committee office, which was -- John knows was run by Saddam -- one of Saddam Hussein`s notorious sons, Uday. I mean, he tortured people there, he executed people there.

But -- and it was a scene of great looting by 2:00 p.m. The Iraqis had just descended on it and they were tearing it to pieces.

They were leading out these beautiful Arabian horses, these stallions that were, you know, immaculate, racehorses carrying them out -- a big party. Right next to it was a platoon of American Marines just watching, and watching the whole sort of...

CHARLIE ROSE: Because somebody has given them the order to stand down.

DEXTER FILKINS: Well, I went over to the lieutenant, you know, who is in charge of maybe 40 guys. You know, he`s probably 22 years old. And I said, "Are you just going to let this happen?" By this time the whole city is on fire.

And he said, "I don`t have any orders." And he was a little annoyed with me. And so I kind of stood back, and then he did a remarkable thing, an incredible scene.

He lined his men up, I think maybe in part because I asked him. But he lined his men up in a long, horizontal line. And they started to march.

And he said, "Forward march." And they held their guns. And they started marching past the Olympic Committee office, back and forth and back and forth, as if they were hoping they would kind of frighten the Iraqis and the Iraqis would all go home.

And by this time, you know, it was 2:00 and the whole city was on fire. The Iraqis just looked up. They were paper tigers by 2:00 p.m.


Remarkable, isn't it?

Here is the link to the transcript, which comes out to 19 printed pages on single-spaced Wordpad.

Thought For The Day (Possibly Heretical)

Faith is not certainty so much as it is acting-as-if, in great hope.

"War Is Kind"



Ann sent me the link to this video with the comment, "Graphic - powerful. I hate this war. Ann"

Oh, Ann, I hate it, too. The video is powerful and graphic, as are the words.

Pray for peace in Iraq.

From the young woman who made the video:

This is a video I did for an English 1020 project. It was an interpretation of 3 poems which are credited at the end of the video. The poems are about war and the effects thereof.

Video remains copyright Meg Michelena, images copyright Corbis, and music copyright Carly Comando.


Embedding is not permitted for this video. Embed link is now available.

Ann's blog is What The Tide Brings In.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

The Middle Ground

From Mark Oakley in the Church Times:

THE Revd Rod Thomas wrote to this newspaper that “there are only really two sides to the current controversy over human sexuality . . . there is no room for middle ground” (Letters, 14 March). So far, media commentators have interpreted the division in the Anglican Communion in the same vein — as being between “conservatives” and “liberals”.
....

The division, however, is not really between conservatives and liberals at all. It is much more serious than that. It is a division between, first, those who are willing to say that other Christians, who have different views or lifestyles to themselves, are still, nevertheless, Christian, and have a Christian integrity that must be part of the Church; and, second, those who think that this simply cannot and must not be the case.

Following the first approach, and contrary to much reporting, there are Anglo-Catholics, Evangelicals, conservatives, liberals, radicals, and everything in between — all knowing where they stand, but, in generosity of spirit, acknowledging the different but faithful approaches to the Bible, tradition, and reasoning that there are legitimately other than their own.
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The second approach, however, challenges this spirit. It argues that there is only one way to interpret scripture or tradition on the issues that are presenting themselves, and that all other views are in error and should not be given any oxygen. Some bishops feel so strongly about this that they cannot even meet in conversation and prayer those fellow bishops with whom they so profoundly disagree. An irony emerges: those who argue so fiercely for family values do not set a good example of how to be a family. Communion needs communication.
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Those who want a Church of strict uniformity will say that behind all the issues that currently divide us lies the primary topic of how the Bible is interpreted, and that what are often referred to as secondary issues are not.

Again, something of the traditional Anglican spirit is under attack here. The Anglican tradition has sought to be a scholarly, reflective, and intellectually honest one. It has therefore known that reading the Bible as a community and taking it seriously — honouring the many genuine historical and interpretative questions that are simply there — will inevitably lead to more than one conclusion.
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A little self-reflection might be important. I cannot be the only person who, since my confirmation at the age of 11, has found himself changing thoughts and opinions on almost everything as the years pass. In those years, though, the Church of England has been large enough to be my home — a spiritual compass, not a dictator telling me with whom I cannot meet or pray.
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This is not about conservatives and liberals. It is about the survival of the Anglican soul. There is middle ground — and it is where we should all be at times, for the sake of one another and the message of reconciliation entrusted to us.

The Ven. Mark Oakley is Archdeacon of Germany and Northern Europe.


I've quoted nearly the whole commentary, but I can't find other places to cut. What the Ven. Oakley says seems quite reasonable and right to me. I suggest that you go to the Church Times website and read the commentary in its entirety.

Thanks to Susan Russell at An Inch At A Time for the link to this commentary from Mark Oakley.

It's So Good To Have "Friends"



My "friend", that clever old dog Clumber at Barkings of An Old Dog, came up with this PhotoShop. I knew that once I put up a real likeness on my site that it would be ill-used by "friend" and foe alike.

Folks in Louisiana have long known Boudreaux's Butt Paste as the best ointment around for diaper rash for babies. Now its popularity has spread far and wide, and the old dog said, I’m sure Mimi is thinking “If only I really had invented this stuff!”

If only.