Monday, November 3, 2008

Madelyn Dunham, Obama's Grandmother, Dies


Barack Obama with his grandparents, Madelyn and Stanley Dunham, after Obama's high school graduation in 1979.

From the Mercury News:

The day before the presidential election, Sen. Barack Obama's campaign announced that his grandmother, the woman he called "Toot" who helped raise him, had died in her apartment in Honolulu.

Aides said Obama was in his hotel room Monday morning in Jacksonville, Fla., doing brief interviews with radio stations in battleground states, when he learned she had died after a long battle with cancer.

He was described as stoic upon hearing that she had died and told aides that he was grateful that he had a chance to say goodbye in person when he recently suspended his campaign for two days to return to Hawaii.

Madelyn Dunham, 86, who had been gravely ill, was a rock of stability as Obama was growing up, giving him the American roots that would ground his teenage years as well as his career in politics.
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Speaking after news of his grandmother's death had been made public, Obama said Monday that the evening marked a "bittersweet" moment for him.

"She has gone home," he said. "She died peacefully in her sleep with my sister at her side, and so there is great joy as well as tears."

In a rare 2004 interview with the Chicago Tribune, Dunham, who called her grandson "Bear,"said she and her husband offered their grandson a greater sense of normalcy. "I suppose I provided stability in his life," she said.


Madelyn did not live to see the day of what I hope and pray will be the election of her grandson as president of the United States. As Obama says, "She has gone home." But she will know. She will know. It's good that Barack had the opportunity to see her and say good-bye before she died.

O God of grace and glory, we remember before you this day our sister Madelyn. We thank you for giving her to her family and friends, to know and to love as a companion on their earthly pilgrimage. In your boundless compassion, console those who mourn. Give them faith to see in death the gate of eternal life, so that in quiet confidence they may continue their course on earth, until, by your call, they are reunited with those who have gone before; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

[Book of Common Prayer], p. 491 (slightly paraphrased)

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13 comments:

  1. I'm feeling very sad about this.

    If you can add someone else to your prayers, please remember Illinois's other senator, Dick Durbin. His eldest daughter died of a heart condition Saturday. She was only 40. Durbin is standing for election tomorrow too.

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  2. She's gone on so she can celebrate in style with her daughter on the other side. Given the chance to "party" with Martin and Bobby and her daughter as opposed to lying in her death bed, I think he made a wise choice. She's in a place no where she can kick up her heel's and dance. Peace, Mimi.

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  3. I think SHE made a wise choice, my typo, sorry.

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  4. May she rest in peace (or party in peace) and rise in glory. Peace be to you, Madelyn.

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  5. Ruth, yes, of course. Prayers for Sen. Durbin's daughter and for her family and friends.

    Renz, I'm still looking for that book, and I will get back to you.

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  6. A lovely post and prayer- may she rest in peace and rise in glory, angels speed her to paradise.

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  7. Thank you. I decided that it's way past time for me to begin to mine the treasures of the BCP.

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  8. Yes, Mimi, thanks for this prayer. We had an All Souls service tonight at Church. The choir sang a Requiem Mass, and names of people who had died this year were read out from the altar. I had heard about Mrs. Dunham and added her name to the list. I love the Prayer Book. The prayers for the dead are wonderful.

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  9. That Kaeton Woman has a moving photograph, here

    [Thanks for the Pop-Open thread, Mimi! :-)]

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  10. JCF, that 's a beautiful picture of Obama.

    Regarding the pop-up comment box, I guess it was time. The long threads are difficult with the other format.

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  11. The Cancer Research Institute extends its sincerest sympathies to Senator Barack Obama and his family on the loss of his grandmother, Madelyn Dunham, who succumbed to cancer yesterday.

    In the statement from the Obama campaign, the Senator encouraged those who wish to express their condolences to contribute to cancer research. We thank Senator Obama for this thoughtful action at a time of unimaginable grief.

    Click here to make a donation in memory of Madelyn Dunham:
    http://www.cancerresearch.org/give/memorial/Barack-Obama.html

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  12. Thanks, JCF; I saw the photo, but couldna remember where.

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