Sunday, May 10, 2009

The View From The Homestead


I'm sitting under the shelter on the deck at the end of the pier on the river bank of False River, which is not a river, but a crescent-shaped lake. The Mississippi River once flowed here, but a long time ago, Ole Man River changed course and cut off this area from its flow. Thus the reason for the name of the parish where the lake is located - Pointe Coupee.

When I stepped onto the the deck, I chased away a female wood duck. I see several eggs in a corner. Perhaps, she's hatching them? It's lovely to have the wood ducks around, but, on the minus side, they leave behind big white plops of duck poop. I wanted a picture of the ducks, but none are nearby.


To get to the water, we cross a well-traveled road, which must be done with care, because there are curves in the road in both directions. It's nice and breezy out here, but it's hard to see the computer screen, because it's so bright. I keep losing the cursor.

My daughter and my grandsons caught a mess of catfish and one perch yesterday and today. Grandpère cleaned and fileted the fish, and they will take them home to fry.

Earlier today, Diana and I went for a walk in the back pasture, which was formerly a cow pasture. The whole yard, front and back, was a cow pasture when I first met GP. You had to walk looking down, because cow patties were all around. Diana pooped in the pasture, and I didn't need to scoop the poop, because this land is my land, and the pasture is large.

The pasture was once the location of one of GP's follies. He had a pond dug on one side of the pasture, but he did not line it with clay or plastic, and the pond didn't hold water for very long. He left an island in the center, where we placed a statue of St. Francis, but, as the pond went dry, weeds and little trees began to sprout, until the whole thing became a tangled mess. Poor St. Francis was in the midst of the tangle, and no longer visible.


GP finally had the pond filled in. Good thing he left the scooped out dirt around the pond, because it was used to fill the pond and level the field to its former state. Now St. Francis stands alone and bereft in the field. I want GP to move him to the front, but he says that he's too heavy for one man to carry, and when he comes here with other men, they have better things to do than concern themselves with moving poor St. Francis to a better location.

Behind the pasture is the farmland, which once supported five families, but is now given over to a farmer to make hay for a percentage of the price that he gets for the hay. Behind the farmland is woods, which was always there.

You can see the hay bales in the picture along with the small pecan trees which my son and GP planted recently along the sides of the field. One day they will produce pecans, but perhaps not in our lifetimes. The trees will benefit our children and grandchildren.

Note: I wrote this while I was on the swing under the shelter, but I'm posting from home, because I was working on slow wireless at the homestead, as many of you already know, and I could not include the pictures.

Pardon me if I'm late in answering email, because any mail that had an attachment or a link to a picture or a video would not open.

UPDATE: Below is a picture of the steps leading down to the riverbank. They're a tribute to my father-in-law, who, amongst his many occupations, was a welder. The steps are made of iron, which he welded together, carried across the road. and laid down on the steep slope. Ingenious, don't you think? They're a perfect fit. He got it all right, the angle of the slope, the placement. They've been there for many years, and they will, very likely, be there for many more years.

Senator Vitter, Release Your Hostage

NewYork Times:

Hurricane season begins June 1, and yet the Federal Emergency Management Agency still has no new director. Two months ago, President Obama nominated Craig Fugate, the state emergency chief who excelled in Florida. The choice was hailed widely, on both sides of the aisle, as ideal. But Mr. Fugate is being held hostage in the Senate by David Vitter of Louisiana.

Mr. Vitter complains that FEMA is not answering his questions about some high-risk flood areas that await rebuilding. FEMA should answer his questions. But we suspect that Senator Vitter is more preoccupied with the approach of re-election season than any weather events. He is clearly relishing doing battle with the administration, issuing broadsides styling himself as a populist standing up to “strong arm” tactics of the White House.


Sen. Vitter, stop it! You have made a fool of yourself and embarrassed your constituents quite enough. Stop the posturing. We don't need or want any more of the Vitter follies. Let Mr. Fugate's appointment go through, so he can do his job to prepare for THE HURRICANE SEASON THAT IS LESS THAN A MONTH AWAY! This is not all about you. It is about the safety of the citizens of Louisiana, whom you have thus far represented so poorly.

The Rhodes scholarship vetting process needs serious work. How could the powers that be allow in two such sorry prospects as Vitter and Bobby Jindal?

Thanks to MotherAmelia for the link. Click over to read MotherAmelia's Mothers Day sermon, which is excellent.

Happy Mother's Day

A blessed and happy day to mothers and to all who care for children. Mothering is not just for mothers, and mothering doesn't end when children reach adulthood but rather, it is a job for a lifetime.
Almighty God, heavenly Father, you have blessed us with the joy and care of children: Give us calm strength and patient wisdom as we bring them up, that we may teach them to love whatever is just and true and good, following the example of our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

PS: Let us pray for those who are missing mothers who have passed on.

From Roseann

Failure to Thrive

I've been diagnosed with Geriatric Failure to Thrive. I don't think of myself as geriatric but I have all the symptoms and the hospital and doctors have made this an official diagnosis. I want you all the know that I am fighting as hard as I can to turn this around.

Love, R


Roseann, we love you. We know that you are a fighter. We are with you and Gary in spirit. We continue to pray for you.

Roseann is at home now. Her blog is Give Peace A Chance.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

"One Word"

You must, you absolutely must read Fr Tobias Haller's address to Provincial Synod II in Albany, New York.

Here's a taste, but read the entire speech. I won't take "No" for an answer, and I promise you won't be sorry.

In the long run, there is no such thing as a solitary Christian. There is no Christian without the church, no church without Christ, no Christ without God. For as we believe that God is love, there can be no love without relationship. This love divine, all loves excelling, is the ultimate compassion — feeling-with — the love that embraces the other, that gives itself for the life of the other, that becomes itself in losing itself, saving its life in losing it. This is the embodied love of the Incarnation, the love that died on the Cross, the love that rose again from the dead, and in whom we will one day be raised: love that becomes so united with the beloved that the old categories that ruled the world — Jew and Greek, slave and free, male and female — are overshadowed by the love which passes all understanding, yet shelters our hearts and minds under the shadow of everlasting wings.

O The Woes Of Slow Wireless!

My friends, I can't even get to some of your blog sites. If you have pictures or videos, I get a time-out notice, or I get tired of waiting. If you sent me emails with attachments, I may not be able to open them. I can't watch or listen to media links, other than print.

Posting takes a long time. I've about given up on using pictures, with the exception of the beautiful icon of Julian of Norwich that I "borrowed" from Paul, which took three tries before it finally went up. I can only have one file open at a time. This reminds me of many years ago, when I worked on my first computer, which had a very small drive, after it was five years old.

Oh, woe is me! I know what you're thinking: "Bitch, moan, and complain - that's all that woman does. Enough already!" And you're absolutely right, of course. So I'll stop.

Happy Birthday To Paul The BB!

Today Yesterday Paul celebrated his life on this good earth for 63 three years. Don't focus on the number of years, because Paul is young at heart, and he looks far younger than his years. He is soooo good-looking.

Watch over thy child, O Lord, as his days increase; bless and guide him wherever he may be. Strengthen him when he stands; comfort him when discouraged or sorrowful; raise him up if he fall; and in his heart may thy peace which passeth understanding abide all the days of his life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

And please go to Paul's web site to read his post titled A Modest Proposal on his idea for a moratorium.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Feast Day Of Lady Julian Of Norwich


Julian of Norwich

Icon "borrowed" from Paul the BB.

"The soul that would preserve its peace, when another's sin is brought to mind, must fly from it as from the pains of hell, looking to God for help against it. To consider the sins of other people will produce a thick film over the eyes of our soul, and prevent us for the time being from seeing the 'fair beauty of the Lord'-- unless, that is, we look at them contrite along with the sinner, being sorry with and for him, and yearning over him for God. Without this it can only harm, disturb, and hinder the soul who considers them. I gathered all this from the revelation about compassion...This blessed friend is Jesus; it is his will and plan that we hang on to him, and hold tight always, in whatever circumstances; for whether we are filthy or clean is all the same to his love."

What is going on in the Anglican Communion now, if it's not bringing to mind the so-called "sins" of others, who because they love people of the same sex must not be fully included in God's church and must not have their unions blessed by the church? Would that we'd all follow Lady Julian's directive to "preserve our peace" and fly from contemplating the sins of others as from the pains of hell. If we choose to spend our time contemplating sin, are not our own "manifold sins and wickedness" enough?

Better still, could we spend our time "seeing the 'fair beauty of the Lord'...for whether we are filthy or clean is all the same to his love"?

PRAYER

Lord God, who in your compassion granted to the Lady Julian many revelations of your nurturing and sustaining love: Move our hearts, like hers, to seek you above all things, for in giving us yourself you give us all; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.


Lady Julian's words from The Lectionary.

"Be Like The Bird"

A dear friend sent me the poem below this morning. She said it made her think of me. I cried when I read it. The poem makes me think of her, too, and of a good many other friends, in real and virtual life. I present it here to you, my visitors, those who comment, and those who don't, and I dedicate it to you.

Be Like the Bird

Be like that bird
Who, pausing in flight,
Feels the bough give way
Beneath her feet
And yet sings,
Knowing she hath wings.


Victor Hugo

I'm at the "farm", no, not the funny farm, Grandpère's childhood home, which is no longer a farm. He loves the place passionately. Me - not so much.

I'm on slow wireless, very slow wireless, frustratingly slow wireless, and my dear friend's poem lifts my spirits out of the frustration.

George Carlin On Aging

Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old
is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited
about aging that you think in fractions.

"How old are you?" "I'm four and a half!" You're never thirty-six and a
half. You're four and a half, going on five! That's the key.

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the
next number, or even a few ahead. "How old are you?" "I'm gonna be 16!"

You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16! And then the greatest
day of your life . . . you become 21. Even the words sound like a
ceremony . . . YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like
bad milk. He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There's no fun now,
you're just a sour-dumpling. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the
brakes, it's all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 . . ..
and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would! So you
BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60. You've built
up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it's a day-by-day thing;
you HIT Wednesday! You get into your 80s and every day is a complete
cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime.

And it doesn't end there. Into the 90s, you start going backwards; "I
Was JUST 92."

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a
little kid again. "I'm 100 and a half!"

May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height.
Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening,
whatever. Never let the brain idle. " An idle mind is the devil's
workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is

with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, Whether it's family, pets,
keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable,
improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next
county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the
moments that take our breath away.


The last statement is so very true. I'm quite serious when I say that, although I've been through rough times, I thank God that I have had many beautiful moments in my life that took my breath away.

And turning 30 was a tremendous shock to me. I breezed through the remainder of the turning decades.

Thanks to Doug.