Tuesday, July 20, 2010

SAME SEX BLESSINGS TO BE OFFERED IN THE DIOCESE OF SAN DIEGO

From IT at The Friends of Jake:

But the pinnacle of the weekend was an announcement during the Rev. Canon Allisyn Thomas's sermon on Sunday. She informed us that Bishop James Mathes has given St Paul's permission to offer same sex blessings. There were many tears of joy in the congregation, as long-time couples realized that they, at last, can fully belong. (BP was singing in the summer choir, so I had to wait for the Peace to be able to sneak into the choir to hug her tight!)

What wonderful news! Read the details at TFOJ.

The link to The Rev. Canon Allisyn Thomas' sermon is at the website of St. Paul's Cathedral.

We are created to love God and to love each other. And it is often in our most intimate relationships—intimate in body, mind, and soul, we see the image of the invisible God and begin to understand the depth of God’s all encompassing passion and love for us.

This Cathedral community has been abundantly blessed, and continues to be blessed, with many couples who are in loving, committed long term, Christ-filled relationships. Their presence is an amazing witness of what the better part looks like.

But, we have not been able to formally bless the relationships of our LGBT members—a situation which has caused great pain for many here and diminished the ability of all of us to find and proclaim the image of the invisible God, an image often found in the relationships of our LGBT members and friends because they know some things about fidelity and steadfastness in the face of hardship those of us who are straight cannot fully appreciate.
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Approximately two weeks ago, Bishop Mathes sent a letter to all clergy in the Diocese saying he will permit the blessing of same gender relationships in churches in this Diocese, under certain conditions.

Canon Thomas' entire sermon is well worth reading.

PACO - MY DAUGHTER'S NEWEST PET

When we visited on Sunday, there was a crowd, and Paco could not be on the floor much, for fear of him getting stepped on.



Adorable, no?


 

He's so sweet.


 

Paco is tiny.


 

Gino, Paco's playmate



My daughter's yard banner - Good advice

PLEASE PRAY - FROM DAVID@MONTREAL

Beloved Giants of prayer and practice

I've had two calls this afternoon for prayers for Rosemary, our little Armenian bird, who last Thursday was rushed back into hospital with severe breathing difficulties- one call from Dave, Rosemary's wonderful husband, the other from my baby sister Jenny who is Rosemary's friend and chief caregiver when Dave is obliged to work in Ottawa during most weeks. As you might remember from earlier prayer calls, this is Rosemary's second bout with cancer and her determination to get through this is incredible. Dave and Rosemary have two young sons.
So prayers for Rosemary and Dave please, their sons, and my baby sister Jenny please.

Prayer's for dear Kirstin please- undergoing her second round in the school of cancer also. Kirstin has just begun a very aggressive course of teatments which will be taking over the forseeable future. Last I heard she has been released from hospital from the first round and is currently at Bishop's Ranch in California.

Another cherished sister in faith, Fran has been having a really rough time recovering from a gall bladder operation, and has been on a medical fast. Fran, her Beloved, and her step-daughter are due to leave for holidays any day now, and she's still struggling with the first steps towards healing.

Prayers please for my former colleague Louyse who underwent brain surgery late last week. The tumor was only discovered after her throid had been irradiated, and she was experiencing balance, perception and speech defecits. Louyse will have a long path of healing ahead of her.

Prayers please for a fiesty friend who manages a life with some pretty incredible challenges and demands made on her. She is currently travelling overseas for her work, and her two children are currently, of legal necessity, in the care of her ex-spouse, their father, who at the best of times is not a desireable influence. Happily this friend is able to share her parenting with her gracious and gentle secondt spouse, who loves these children as his own. Prayer for all involved- for the children, for the pressure and multiple demands my friend tries to balance.

And speaking of fiesty- one beloved sister who might occasionally admit to certain mother bear-like qualities; she, her husband, and their chosen son have been undergoing some horrendous trials in the last days- the system at it's near-worst. This sister is one of the most articulate, passionate, spirit-filled priests I know, so prayers for all three- that grace and strength, insight and peace will be given sufficient to the path ahead and that generous, life-giving justice will prevail.

News of Frank- he and his latest round of cancer appear to be at a standstill. The effects of the ongoing treatments are mild compared to what he as previously been through, and his attitude is incredible. With restrictions, he and Carol are having a simple summer, surrounded by their three wonderful daughters, their spouses & the grandchildren out in BC. He called Mam the other day to see how she is doing with her situation and three times sent along his thanks to 'David's Giants' who have 'made all the difference'

And speaking of Mam, even if she is my Mam, I have to say she's incredible! No complaints, no despair, she's the first one to tell you just how lucky she is that she's still got her arm, that it wasn't her hip, that she's got family to look after her, and that they're doing it so wonderfully. The whole experience has visibly aged her, and yet though there is still occasionally some confusion with individual words, her attitude is always grateful and positive. Mam saw the surgeon late last week, and will begin physiotherapy next Wednesday. She's still unable to live on her own as long as she has the cast, soshe is staying with my sister Joanne and her husband Ken. Today, for the first time since the accident she actually made it to Church with my sister Jenny.

So much to be grateful for, but even more to offer up, and like Frank says you guys really do 'make all the difference.'

love always- always Love

David@Montreal

Monday, July 19, 2010

JESUS AND MO - MOSES IS BACK



author says:

Moses is back! Where has he been? Nobody knows where he goes when he goes a wanderin'.


Peace and blessings,

J&M

From Jesus and Mo.

MAPLE STREET CAFÉ


Yesterday, Grandpère and I drove to New Orleans to have lunch at the Maple Street Café. Although we had dined at the restaurant some years ago, we had a little trouble finding it, and we ended up about two blocks away. GP went into the building which we'd thought might be the restaurant, but it was a gym. Anyway, he asked directions and was told it was two blocks up the street. We decided to leave the car where it was, since parking is scarce in the area, and walk to the Café. The sidewalks are badly uneven and even broken in some spots because of oak tree roots, and GP kept hurrrying me along on the uneven sidewalks, until I finally told him, "I'm doing the best I can! Stop it, or I will make a scene in the street!" And I would have, but he stopped. Men!

The interior of the restaurant, which is no more than une petite boîte, is attractively decorated. The Google Earth view of the exterior is pictured above. I wanted to take my own pictures but the battery on my camera was dead, after taking pictures of my daughter's newest pet, a black kitten named Paco. The Virtual Tourist has a much better photo, along with all sorts of dire warnings about copyright infringement, so I can only link.

As the first course, GP had the spring mix salad, and I had creamed soup with portobello mushrooms and cherry tomatoes. For an entrée, GP ordered Angel Hair Ziad - Fresh Gulf shrimp sautéed with wild mushrooms and sun dried tomatoes in a light olive oil and garlic sauce, which he said was delicious. I chose Duck Jameel - Pan seared boneless pepper crusted duck breast served with a blueberry sauce, along with a vegetable selection of red cabbage, sliced turnips, and broccoli, and new potatoes. The duck with blueberry sauce was to die for, along with the cabbage, and even the turnips were tasty, and turnips are not, by any means, my favorite vegetable.

To top the meal off, although we'd both had our fill, we sinfully ordered dessert, and I had coffee. Tom ordered the pie of all pies, for him, Key lime, and I had bread pudding with a white chocolate sauce. You should know that I am a white chocolate junkie.

A fine meal and well worth the trip. We'll definitely go there again.

BATHING CATS

 

BUT YOU SAID YOU LOVED ME!


 

AS GOD IS MY WITNESS, I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU!


 

I DON'T THINK I LOVE YOU ANY MORE


 

N-O-O-O-O! N-O-O-O-O!

AREA 51

You've all heard of the Air Force's ultra-high-security, super-secret base in Nevada, known simply as "Area 51"?

Well, late one afternoon, the Air Force folks out at Area 51 were very surprised to see a Cessna landing at their "secret" base. They immediately impounded the aircraft and hauled the pilot into an interrogation room.

The pilot's story was that he had taken off from Las Vegas, got lost, and spotted the base's runway just as he was about to run out of fuel. The Air Force started a full FBI background check on the pilot and held him overnight during the investigation.

By the next day, they were finally convinced that the pilot really had been lost and really wasn't a spy. They gassed up his airplane, gave him a terrifying "you-did-not-see-a-base" briefing, complete with threats of spending the rest of his life in prison, told him Vegas was that-a-way on such-and-such a heading, and sent him on his way.

The next day, to the total disbelief of the Air Force, the same Cessna showed up again. Once again, the MPs surrounded the plane as it pulled to a stop...only this time there were two people in the plane.

The same pilot jumped out and said, "Do anything you want to me, but that's my wife in the plane, and you have to tell her where I was last night."

The baseless fear of WOMAN as black widow spider.

Don't blame me. Blame Paul (A.). And his wife is a lovely woman.

SEN. VITTER APOLOGIZES

A couple of days ago, I posted on Sen. David Vitter's comments about Rachel Maddow during a radio interview - comments which did him no credit at all.

According to Greg Sergant at The Plum Line, Sen. Vitter has apologized.

Dear Rachel,

Regarding my remark during a radio conversation today, I apologize.

The hosts made their comment and I obviously chimed in. While we do not usually agree on the issues, I do not think you deserved that comment.

Sincerely,

David

The senator could have left out, "While we do not usually agree on the issues...," but still, he aplolgized. Credit due.

Rachel Maddow responded graciously:

Dear Senator Vitter --

As a former radio host who knows how on-air exchanges like that can escalate, I both understand how it happened, and appreciate the apology.

Thank you.

Best wishes,

Rachel

Thanks to Cathy for the link to Sargent's post.

BISHOP ALAN - ON EQUITY AND JUSTICE


Bishop Alan Wilson, of the Anglican Diocese of Birmingham in England, spent last week on retreat at St. Wandrille Abbey in Normandy, pictured above. After Keeping the Hours and being steeped in the Psalms for a week, Bishop Alan writes:

If, quoting Michael Ramsey, “The Church exists that Christ may reign,” our life should be characterised not by weird exceptionalism, but intentional striving for equity and justice. What equity means pragmatically differs from age to age. However the challenge remains constant. God’s justice may transcend that of the world, but it has to be at [l]east as just. And after a week praying the collect, much more elegant in Latin than Engilsh, that Christians may reject those things that do not fit with the name we claim and choose those that do, it just doesn’t make any sense to suggest that basic issues of justice and equity are marginal or secondary, or merely secular impositions. They spring, in fact, from the core of our faith, as reflected in the psalms.

As I responded in the comments at Bishop Alan's blog:

The Psalms speak time and again of equity and justice and have done so for thousands of years, with particular attention to those on the margins. How can we think or speak of these qualities as an innovation in our Christian lives?

Please read Bishop Alan's entire post and view his other photos of the abbey.

The lovely photo above is Bishop Alan's. I hope he doesn't mind my borrowing it. The lush greenery (but not the building) reminds me of south Louisiana.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

MY ENNEAGRAM

Main Type
Overall Self
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Enneagram Test Results
Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||| 38%
Type 2 Helpfulness |||||||||||||||| 62%
Type 3 Image Focus |||||| 22%
Type 4 Hypersensitivity |||||||||||| 46%
Type 5 Detachment |||||||||||||||| 66%
Type 6 Anxiety |||||||||||||||| 70%
Type 7 Adventurousness |||||||||| 38%
Type 8 Aggressiveness |||||||||||||||||| 74%
Type 9 Calmness |||||||||| 34%
Your main type is 8
Your variant is social
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Certain of the results seem right to me, and others not quite right. My Main Type surely gives fodder to those who wish to criticize me. How can I have a tendency to be domineering tyrant and, at the same time, score high on compliant traits and low on assertive traits? Well, it's only a test.

I know that the test is old hat to most of you, and I'm trailing far behind.

Doorman-Priest's sermon on Martha and Mary inspired me to take the test.